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Brandon’s crying became intense around the age of one month. Every day he
cried for several hours. Sometimes the crying would be so fierce that his
mother would break down and cry herself.
Brandon’s grandmother, on the other hand, dismissed it with a shrug. "
It’s his nature. He’s just a crybaby, like your brother was," she told
Brandon’s mother. "He’ll grow out of it."
Brandon did cry a lot. He had colic.
All babies cry. Most cry between one to three hours a day in their first 6
months of life. But babies with colic – about one in five babies – are
different. They cry for three or more hours on more than three late
afternoons or nights a week.
Their crying is intense. They may become red-faced, rigid, and pull their
legs up against their stomach. They may pass gas or have bowel movements
with great force. Their eating and sleeping may be disturbed.
Colic may start as early as two or three weeks and usually ends – sometimes
suddenly – around the age of three months. It tends to start and stop a
little later with babies who were born premature.
The cause of colic is not clear. Sometimes it might be related to what a
baby eats or drinks, but usually it is not. It is not even clear that
colic is a special medical condition. It may just be frequent and
intense crying.
Parents who suspect their baby has colic should call the doctor. There is
no magical cure for colic, but a doctor may check for other causes, adjust
a baby’s diet, or suggest different ways of caring for your baby.
Sometimes a pleasant walk outside, a quiet car ride, or soft background
noise will help soothe a baby with colic, at least for the moment. But
never try any extreme home remedies or "cures," no matter what
trusted relative or a friend swears by them.
Your child’s crying is not dangerous, just frustrating. If the crying
has you on edge, ask your spouse, another relative, or friends for a
hand from time to time.
When babies with colic are not crying, there are perfectly happy and
contented, so enjoy these moments together. Remember, you did not
cause the colic and your baby cannot control it. Your baby is not mad
at you. Be patient and loving as you can, and take comfort in the fact
that most babies become much calmer after three months.
This column is written by Robert B. McCall, Co-Director of the
Office of Child Development and Professor of Psychology, and is provided as a
public service by the Frank and Theresa Caplan Fund for Early Childhood Development
and Parenting Education.